Resources for Spouses

When a spouse learns that his or her spouse is gay or lesbian, it’s first important to find someone in whom you can confide. If you have a family pastor, close friend, or therapist, contact them first.

Find someone to talk to:

Find a Therapist

Virtual Support Groups and Resources


Straight Spouse Connection

Straight Spouse Network

Books and Resources

My Husband is Gay

Is My Husband Gay, Straight or Bi?